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Questions on a Peaceful Day

I just really enjoy being on the water; I always have.  It’s a peaceful place that encourages clear thinking, which I need so very often.  So, as I sit hear contemplating, these are some questions that I have that I am hoping you can help me with. Thought:   As girls grow up, they are often confronted with several situations/comments that insinuate that what they are is not good or pretty enough .  Examples You would be really pretty if … You don’t have that type of … It would look better if you’d wear this … All girls should… Boys really like it when … Yet, as girls become young ladies then women, we don’t understand why there are extreme levels self-esteem issues.  We don’t know why people can’t be confident in who they are.  Does this make sense to you?  If so, please explain Thought:   As a black person, I often hear things like ‘you should be proud to be black’ or ‘we are not like everyone else’; yet, we don’t consider ourselves worthy or to have ‘made it’ until